Friday, May 8, 2009

I Finally Have a REALLY Good Excuse for Not Blogging!

We've had quite a week!

FRIDAY
Evan wasn't feeling well, but nothing serious--just a cough and a fever. Then just after office hours, he began complaining of back and neck pain and difficulty breathing. We decided to take him to urgent care using the tag-team-swine-flu-avoidance method. (It works this way: Dad heads to urgent care at our local hospital and fills out paperwork. He tells the nurse, "My wife will bring my son up once an exam room is ready." Meanwhile Evan and Mom are safely at home avoiding all germs and a two hour wait! When it is finally Evan's turn, we jump in the car with Ryan-possibly the world's fastest driver-who delivered us in under 5 minutes.)

Evan was diagnosed with an ear infection and pneumonia. He was given IV antibiotics and sent home with a prescription for a few more days.

SATURDAY
John was up most of the night up with Evan and it was my turn to take over. While John was sleeping, I attempted to get Evan to eat some breakfast. Then the fun began. He started telling me about the game they played at seminary that morning. What?! A few minutes later he asked me "What does "hootenalia" mean? You know, yesterday I hoottenailiaed?" Huh? Now he was conjugating nonsense words!?

After the third incident I finally realized that Evan was delirious. He also told me that he could see two of me! More delirium or double vision? Either way this was not a good sign. After consulting with our good friend who is a doctor, we decided to take Evan to the emergency room at Children's Hospital. John had to carry him piggyback into the waiting room where we joined the hordes of people with masks on their faces.

After the long wait, Evan was in for:
  • x-rays
  • blood tests
  • urine samples
  • vision tests
  • flu tests (very nasty--they scrape the farthest recesses of the nasal passage with a wooden stick! And of course he didn't have any type of flu at all.)
  • CAT scan
  • hours of monitoring his vital signs
  • and finally (drumroll please) a spinal tap!!
He was finally diagnosed with meningitis in addition to the pneumonia and was admitted to the hospital. I got comfy in the handy "armchair sleeper" and we were set for the night.

Here's the view from my "bed"
SUNDAY
Evan was really out of it and was very uncomfortable with the IV. It was a very long night because he usually sleeps with his arms bent, and that kept blocking the IV tubing. At one point the nurse and I were both standing over his bed trying to comfort him. He got very wide-eyed and looked back and forth and both of us. The nurse asked, "What's wrong honey? What can we do for you?" Evan got a little feisty and hollered, "You two can stop staring at me!" I was just happy to see him come to life a bit!


MONDAY

Visits from more doctors:
  • residents
  • attending physician
  • neurology team
  • infectious disease team
That night he also got an MRI which meant a wheelchair ride in the tunnels to the hospital next door. The loud noise of the MRI was incredible!

Fortunately, Evan's still has his sense of humor.
He looked at the monitor attached to his finger and said, "Hey, I'm ET!"
TUESDAY
Evan's spinal fluid is sent out for multiple tests, some as far away as the MAYO clinic in Minnesota. While he sleeps, I get visits from hospital volunteers, the hospital teacher and the chaplain.

Because of the swine-flu outbreak, no visitors (except parents) were allowed in the hospital. However, we got special permission for Ryan to come give Evan a priesthood blessing (along with John of course).

The volunteers gave Evan a teddy bear on the first day and he was very attached to it. He finally decides to give his bear a name. He chooses "Randy" as a variation on the name of the hospital--the Rady Children's Hospital.

WEDNESDAY
Evan is feeling a bit better. He spends a few minutes in the courtyard just outside his room. He enjoys watching the construction on the new hospital building. He also watches a few minutes of TV despite his double vision, but isn't up to doing the mazes and worksheets the teacher brought to him.

The neurologist has recommended an eye patch to help his vision, but they don't seem to have any in the hospital. The doctor suggests we pick up a pirate patch at a costume store. Aunt Jenny has a better idea. She and Evan's sewing teacher team up to make some custom eye patches.

Here is the pathetic make-shift eye patch the nurse made.
Now Evan looks like a trauma patient!


Ah! Much better!
Evan's eyepatch is made of cool planet fabric.
Randy's patch has a dinosaur.

THURSDAY
Evan spends more time out in the courtyard. He definitely has his appetite back and enjoys his meals. The hospital actually has room service! He gets to choose from a great menu and I can call in his order whenever he gets hungry.

We are anxious to go home, but have to wait for ALL of the many doctors to give their okay. In the afternoon the attending physician finally says we can leave!

Here's Evan enjoying his last meal before heading home.
The blue gatorade was a favorite that he ordered frequently!


At home, Evan was greeted by these signs from his cousins.


Marianne and his friend Matthew put more signs on the front door.
And his bed was covered in balloons.


Even Roxy was excited to have Evan home and I couldn't get her to hold still for a picture.


FRIDAY
Evan slept for 12 hours straight last night. He woke up very happy! He keeps saying, "It's so good to be home!" His double vision is improving and he is slowly regaining his strength. Best of all, he got to take a long shower. He is enjoying the great food our fridge from our good friends in the ward. Life is good and we are so grateful for all of our blessings.

It will take Evan a week or more to recover fully so we would appreciate your continued prayers!

Friday, April 24, 2009

Warning Labels

Here's what I know NOW that I wish I knew THEN about . . .


Road Trips . . .

1. Do NOT allow the Easter Bunny to put "whistle pops" in your kids' baskets--especially if you are planning a 12 hour car ride.

2. Just because it's April, do not assume you will have nice weather. Be prepared for road conditions that include rain, strong wind, hail, snow and blinding sunlight. All of these will likely occur within an hour or two.

3. Do not allow the driver to listen to 12 Jack Johnson songs in a row when she is already feeling drowsy. You might even need to break out the whistle pops again. (Really, I was only resting my eyes for a second!)

4. Allow unlimited passenger use of those things that are usually off limits--Cell phones, cameras, ipods, laptops, DS etc. And don't forget the car chargers!

5. Stock up on giant jawbreakers. They last approximately 5 hours and it is impossible to argue with your sister with one in your mouth!





Missionary shopping . . .

1. Feel free to stop by Missionary Mall to pick up your free tie and mission flag . . .

2. But steer clear of those "industrial suits" guaranteed to last two years. The suits look as bad as they sound. Do we really want people thinking that's how Mormons dress? Yikes!

3. Prepare yourself: You will need cash, checks, credit cards and possibly even trading stamps.



Wedding Festivities . . .


1. Be sure you have plenty of cousins to play with while all the grownups are inside the temple.


2. Have at least two cameras handy so that you can take dozens of pictures of the lovely temple grounds and the even lovelier bride and groom. Then you can post them on YOUR BLOG

3. If the reception gets a little boring you can make another trip to the chocolate fountain or use the jewels decorating the tables to spell words, draw pictures, or write mathematical equations.


Now you know!!

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Easter Before and After

Before
My nephew Heath absolutely loves to swing!
He really didn't want to get off for our egg hunt,
but he reluctantly grabbed a basket . .


After
. . . and it was worth it!
He had a good time hunting and filled his basket
Isn't his green shirt perfect for Easter?!


Before
Evan arranged these eggs so beautifully
and he really can balance an egg on one end!


After
We had a great time trying some new egg dyeing techniques
These tie-dyed ones were lots of fun!


We used rubber bands to get these stripes


Before
This picture cracks me up!
The cousins are on the go and racing off to find those eggs

After
The baskets are full and the candy trading is about to begin!


Before
Look at my thin, lifeless heart!


After
Easter is a beautiful opportunity to:
Think about my Savior, Jesus Christ
and ponder his gift to all mankind and to me personally.

To listen to beautiful, sacred music

To remember my loved ones who have died and
think with joy of the day we will be reunited.

To spend time enjoying and loving my family.

My heart is full!

I hope your Easter was joyous!

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Upside Down

Life is full of ups and downs!

For instance . . .
Down: I haven't posted to my blog in several weeks!
Up: Now I'm trying to make up for it with a mega-post about last week.

Disclaimer: While all of the events contained in this post are true, they did not necessarily happen on the day listed. I'm not trying to lie, I just can't remember!

Sunday
Down: Took John to the airport. He's flying to Philadelphia for training for his new job. I hate it when he's gone. I don't sleep well and I worry more than usual.
Up: I came home to watch General Conference. It was inspiring and uplifting. I loved Elder Oaks' talk about service. "Acts of Service" is my Love Language you know!

Monday

Down: The missionaries never showed up for dinner. I fixed a nice dinner with lots of food and then we sat around and waited . . . for nothing.
Up: While we were waiting, I spent a few minutes outside with Evan. He found the coolest little leaf bug and we had a great time observing it.
More up: My house is picked up and my frig is full of leftovers!

Evan's new pet (see that tiny green spot?)

Here he is up close

Tuesday

Down: Marianne has been really sick for over a week now.
Up: She's now on antibiotics and finally seems to be improving. Plus she's let me snuggle with her a little bit--something she usually resists!
More Up: I went out to dinner with some friends from church and my kids had plenty of missionary leftovers to eat.

Wednesday
Down: It was almost noon and I still hadn't taken a shower or gotten dressed when the doorbell rang. (In my defense, I had exercised, read my scriptures and taught my kids all morning so I'm not completely lazy, just a slob)
Up: When I answered the door, it was my friend Kim with this adorable little box she made as part of her Pay it Forward post. As a bonus, it was filled with chocolate!


Thursday
Down: My kids do their own laundry (yes I know this sounds like an "up", but just wait!) and they tend to drop or forget a stray sock, shirt or washcloth. All of this added up to my garage floor being completely covered with laundry. So I took matters into my own hands. We discovered that Aaron has TWELVE white t-shirts and he only wears one once or twice a week. I also ended up with about 30 unmatched socks! How is this possible?! I finally trashed them.
Up: Our homeschool friends organized an Easter party at the park. I was sooooo grateful because I really needed an escape from hours of laundry! We had a great time decorating eggs (and even learned some new techniques), playing games, hunting for eggs and even holding chicks!
More Up: John's flight came in around 9 PM. I slept well!

With next year's egg layer.


Friday
Down: The weather was cold and rainy. It looked like we were in for a dreary Easter weekend.
Up: We headed to a park with a nice covered pavilion to keep the rain out. We met some new friends and traded some amazing art cards.
More Up: I got to go out to dinner and shopping with my husband. Sushi for him & California roll for me. Yum.

I was brave and attempted another set of art cards.
Theme: Seasons of Joy

Here are the cards I came home with.
My favorite is the millipede in the middle!

Saturday
Down: Marianne and I discovered that making Bakerella's cake pops is harder than it looks. We ended up with chubby chicks and lumpy eggs. It didn't help that our edible ink pens weren't working.
Up: Aaron was heading out on a ice skating date and was in charge of bringing the snacks. We found our best cake pops and they didn't look too bad once we wrapped them up and added some ribbon. The girls thought the cake pops were adorable.


What ups and downs have you had this week?

Thursday, March 26, 2009

June 24, 2009

That's the day & here's the place:

Congratulations Ryan!!!

Mission Song

We strive not for glory, we strive not for fame
We’re serving in Arkansas with only one aim
The Priesthood of God with which others we bless
The most glorious honor that man can posses

Yes!

We follow the Prophet, we teach of the Lord
We testify daily of His church restored
A million will join us; it’s the end of the drought
We’re called to the harvest; it’s the day of the South!

Though we’re far from perfect, our God is our King
For Him we will work now, to Him we will sing
We work for our Father, and this is our goal
The salvation of thousands, the saving of souls

Yes!

We follow the Prophet, we teach of the Lord
We testify daily of His church restored
A million will join us; it’s the end of the drought
We’re called to the harvest; it’s the day of the South!

Contest Results:

And the winner is. . . Lacy! She guessed Texas which is one of the six states bordering Arkansas. Lacy, let me know which restaurant you choose for your gift card.

Monday, March 23, 2009

A Llama Sneezed On Me!

An interview with Evan

Our homeschool boys' group read
Where the Red Fern Grows
and they've been doing some fun activities to go along with it.
I didn't go with them today, but I got the scoop afterwards!

Mom: So what did you do today?
Evan: I went to the Peters' farm!

What was it like?
Fun and dusty and poopy

What animals did they have?
Llamas, goats, chickens, roosters, peacocks, turkeys, pigs, turtles, tortoises, dogs and cats

Did you get to try anything new?
I got to milk a goat, ride a llama, gather eggs and feed carnivorous chickens, frolic with the pigs, and pluck two peacock feathers.

What was the best part?
I'm going to have to say milking the goat. That was at the top of my list. You don't just pull. You have to grab and then squeeze.

How do you keep the goat still while you milk it?
There's a metal thing they stand on. You put its head through some bars and that keeps it from moving, but it can still kick. It kicked over the full pot of milk, so we didn't get to drink it. But they had more milk in the house.

What does goat milk taste like?
It's different from regular milk. Well I'm used to drinking fat free milk, so it is more creamy. It's good. We even made goat cheese. You get a gallon of milk and heat it to 180 degrees. Then you add 1/4 - 1/2 cup vinegar. That makes it turn yellow. Then you use a special strainer and the curd separates from the whey. When it's drained a bunch, it turns into cheese.

Did you try the goat cheese?
It was pretty good; I enjoyed it.

What else did you like?
My second favorite thing was riding the llama. I just hopped up on it. One thing that was pretty scary was that I almost fell off into a pile of llama poop. There were some places where the poop was so deep that if you stepped into it, it would be up to your ankles. I even got sneezed on by a llama!

What was that like?
Wet and a little bit slimy. It wasn't green--don't worry.

What else did you do?
Oh boy, when I was trying to put a collar on the little goat it was kind of scary. The goats were jumping up on the fence and then trying to charge me. Getting the peacock feather was really cool too. You grabbed a feather and held on. The peacock would flap and flap, but you had to keep holding on. Finally the feather would come out. There's even blood on the end of my white feather! I love the color of my other feather. I'm going to call it "peacock green"

Mom, can I go there sometime again? They always have fresh eggs. You just go out and grab some eggs, wash them off and you've got your breakfast! I think we should get some animals. But they said llama food's expensive so maybe we shouldn't get a llama. How about just a few peacocks? Please?!

Time for bed Evan!
(Special thanks to the Peters & to Lisa, Michelle & Angel who planned the fun and transported all 13 boys.)

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

What to do??

Recently we were talking to a young couple. They mentioned how hard it is to find something to do on the weekend.

Later, Marianne asked me, "What did they mean about "finding something to do?"

Our weekends seem to be jam packed with chores, sports, babysitting, church services & activities, family time and other commitments. Marianne couldn't even conceive what it would be like to have a weekend that wasn't full of "have to's".

Are you in the
"What to do?"
or
"Have to!"
stage of life?

Either way I hope you'll find time to come see . . .

Two Gentlemen of Verona
March 20, 21, 27 & 28
7:00 PM
North County Church of Christ
130 Woodward Ave., Escondido, CA 92025
Tickets: $5 per person/$20 per family

It's a very funny Shakespeare production
by some amazing kids!
They've studied and performed more Shakespeare than most of us ever will.

Best of all, since it's only an hour or so,
it won't cut into all those items on your weekend "to do" list.

Here's the old version:


And here's the up-to-date cooool version!


Aaron stars as Proteus--a charming guy who cheats on his girlfriend with his best friend's girl! He manages to get his best friend out of the way by having him banished to the woods.
Shocking I know!
You won't want to miss it. You might even want to put it on your "have to" list!